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Month: December 2009


Dec
2009

tick tock tick tock.

categories: akad, bridal outfit, door gifts, reception, weight

The sister tells me I’m curvacious.

Mr Sunshine wants me to gain a little more weight because he does not like thin girls.
Gila ke hape.

Two weeks to go and I am still fat.
Say hello to the fat bride-to-be.
*nangis*
I guess I’d have to learn to live with my body being like this since there’s not enough to do anything about it anymore eh ? 🙁

Things left to do:
1. Get myself some nice lingerie. Haha.
2. Print signage.
3. Find a way to get the big pillows for our akad nikah two days before the day from Kajang.
4. Buy 100 eggs for the bunga telur/pahar. And boil them !
5. Stick thank you stickers on door gifts when they arrive the night before the date.
6. Buy henna.
7. Collect bersanding outfit.
8. TRY TO RELAX.

xoxo,
Melissa R.

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Dec
2009

checklist update #6

categories: checklist

Akad Nikah@Solemnization

  1. Kursus Perkahwinan – DONE !
  2. HIV testing – DONE !
  3. Kebenaran berkahwin – DONE !
  4. Wedding rings – BOUGHT !
  5. Food – Sal’s mum will be helping out with preparing a light meal for guests.
  6. Kadi and witness – DONE !
  7. Hantaran – DONE !
  8. Hantaran deco – Everything is in Sal’s hands now.
  9. Nikah outfit, tudung and shoes – DONE !
  10. Make up – BOOKED !
  11. Photography – BOOKED !
  12. Bed & bedroom deco – The sister’s in the process of getting it done. 🙂

Reception (my side)

  1. Invitation cards – SENT !
  2. Catering – BOOKED !
  3. Hall – BOOKED !
  4. Pelamin – BOOKED !
  5. Dress and shoes – BOOKED !
  6. Make up – BOOKED !
  7. Bunga pahar – BOUGHT !
  8. Door gifts – ORDERED !
  9. Photography – BOOKED !
  10. PA Sytem – BOOKED !
  11. Cloth for bridesmaid and best man – BOUGHT !
  12. Cloth for Daddy, Marc and Marlene – BOUGHT !

Miscellaneous

  1. Expenses for relatives (fuel, accommodation) – SETTLED !
  2. Honeymoon – BOOKED ! Wheeee !
  3. Signage – To be printed.

Reception (his side)

  1. Catering & canopy–
  2. Pelamin – No pelamin on his side.
  3. Dress and shoes –
  4. Make up –
  5. Door gifts –
  6. Photography – BOOKED !
  7. Cloth for bridesmaid and best man –

xoxo,
Melissa R.

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Dec
2009

emotional turbulence.

categories: sunshine

Three weeks left.
21 days.

I am two weekends away from becoming a wife. InshaAllah.

I feel so fragile. Is this normal ? :”'(

Ya Allah, permudahkanlah segala urusan kami.

Kurniakanlah ketenangan dan berikanlah petunjuk kepada hamba Mu yang lemah ini.
Ameen.

xoxo,
Melissa R.

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